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Help me...

I don't know what to do anymore.

 

I've been with him for quite a while. I fucking love him more than anything in my whole life.

 

I feel a connection. I do.

 

But is it strong enough?

 

Does he love me as much?

He tells me.

 

But is it true?

My mind is so fucked up.

 

Someone help.


Posted on 07/30/2008 12:58 PM Visits: 38
ellienor: 07/30/2008 1:12 PM
go with your instincts. only you know. If he says he loves you give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm sure he wouldn't say it if he didn't mean it. Hang on in there.
Yeah you're right. But somtimes I don't know. Maybe it's just a rough patch in our relationship, but I don't feel that he loves me as much as I love him
ellienor: 07/30/2008 1:35 PM
Yeah you're right. But somtimes I don't know. Maybe it's just a rough patch in our relationship, but I don't feel that he loves me as much as I love him
thats tricky then. if he doesn't can you still live him as much? thats one question you need to ask. what do want in return.
chemicallyromanced: 08/01/2008 9:59 AM
It takes a lot of comitment for someone to tell you that they love you. I think that you should stay with him but do not rush him or expect to say I love you. All relatonships have there rough patches so don't worry. Don't push him either, guys can get just as deffensive as we can. Take it easy for a while. I'm sure it will become clearer soon. Wow that was long! Hope you don't find it strange that I commented but I like to help people!!
milirevenge: 08/08/2008 9:08 PM
I would like to help you. Ok, first, don't rush him cause he may end up saying what you want to hear and not what he really feels. You gotta be carefull about that. Second, you have to control yourself a little bit, maybe step back just a little, don't let him take you for granted! That's what keeps a relationship alive, not to assume that everything stays the same way foreverrrrrrr, let him fight for you! It's clear that you love him but you gotta see what he does to prove you he feels the same way. You have to be patient and watch his moves. And remember that words are just THAT, only words, what really matters are ACTIONS. He may not say "I love you" but does he act like he does? That's something only You can know. Just take things easy. And remember you are really especial ok? So you gotta give yourself the place YOU deserve. Take care, hun. Bye.
It takes a lot of comitment for someone to tell you that they love you. I think that you should stay with him but do not rush him or expect to say I love you. All relatonships have there rough patches so don't worry. Don't push him either, guys can get just as deffensive as we can. Take it easy for a while. I'm sure it will become clearer soon. Wow that was long! Hope you don't find it strange that I commented but I like to help people!!
Lol. Its fine I need the help hehe. I just somtimes don't feel it. He even says it out the blue! But somtimes I feel he doesn't mean it, or mean it as much.
God it's so fucked up!!! Lol Sorry.



miliway said:
I would like to help you. Ok, first, don't rush him cause he may end up saying what you want to hear and not what he really feels. You gotta be carefull about that. Second, you have to control yourself a little bit, maybe step back just a little, don't let him take you for granted! That's what keeps a relationship alive, not to assume that everything stays the same way foreverrrrrrr, let him fight for you! It's clear that you love him but you gotta see what he does to prove you he feels the same way. You have to be patient and watch his moves. And remember that words are just THAT, only words, what really matters are ACTIONS. He may not say "I love you" but does he act like he does? That's something only You can know. Just take things easy. And remember you are really especial ok? So you gotta give yourself the place YOU deserve. Take care, hun. Bye.
Thanks =] You're right. He does sometimes. Like, in October we has our 1 year anniversary coming up and we've both been excited about that. I sometimes feel he loves me, but I dunno. God my mind is messed. You're right though. THanks =]
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